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*It's*me*
11-09-2007, 08:44 AM
So, long story short, my life is changing pretty dramaticaly this weekend. Mikey and i decided to seperate from each other for a 3 month trial period and then re-evaluate where we are at once that is done. I am going thru a whole rollercoaster of emotions atm, mostly good but there is a lot of sadness right now. I could really use some companionship to help me get over this, someone to laugh with and have some fun.....:D

TinkFu
11-09-2007, 08:49 AM
^ Want a free ticket to the Annalyze show tomorrow?!?!!

...

P.S - Remember what I said / If you need anything - I'm here for you :)

adrena_line
11-09-2007, 08:50 AM
Laura, I miss you. You know I am always there for the both of you...and I haven't seen you in like, over a year!!! :( That should change...Check your rep... <333

Third_Eye
11-09-2007, 08:59 AM
Change can be a very scary thing, but it can also be a positive thing that ignites growth. You and Mikey are rockstars, I love you guys to death. Have faith in yourself and each other that whatever happens, it will be for the best. Hang in there kiddo, and know that if either of you need a friend I will always be here.


Go Broncos

Scott the Ghost
11-09-2007, 09:03 AM
asdfasdfasdfasdf

Punkie
11-09-2007, 09:05 AM
Call me anytime. i mean that!!!!!!! I will even keep my phone on loud just for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Plus you have my work # that you can call anytime as well.
lets do a movie this weekend or something like that.

Blacksunshine
11-09-2007, 09:06 AM
I send you my best for you and your family. I can only imagine how hard it must be...but everything has it's reasons, and in the end, your heart knows what is best. Go out and have some fun this weekend....with how long you have been away from even just the board....you need a good time with good friends.

KC Meat
11-09-2007, 09:25 AM
Everybody needs friends to talk to and hang out with, especially when you have kids, cuz they take a lot out of you...I'm sure I don't need to inform you that we're here for ya, you have our numbers (or should, if not, lemme know), so feel free to use em any time :)

*It's*me*
11-09-2007, 09:43 AM
thanx u guys, it really does mean a lot

SuMMeR
11-09-2007, 10:05 AM
I live up in that area now! Just down the street really.. you're more then welcome to hang out if you're ever bored and need to get out of the house. I love you both, and I am here for both of you if you need anything. <3

KC Meat
11-09-2007, 10:10 AM
I live up in that area now! Just down the street really.. you're more then welcome to hang out if you're ever bored and need to get out of the house. I love you both, and I am here for both of you if you need anything. <3Careful though, Summer's prego...I don't think I'd hang out with a prego girl, cuz they're CRAZY!!! ;) haha

SuMMeR
11-09-2007, 10:12 AM
:p

Meh I'm only crazy if you do something to irritate me.

Killy
11-09-2007, 10:20 AM
I'm sorry to hear that, but I hope it all works out for the best. Much love to the both of ya!

*Bunny*
11-09-2007, 10:21 AM
Aww Boo if you ever need smoker buddies..... :weed: Unfortunately I am not very good at offering emotional support, damn being a virgo.

You are well loved by all. I hope it works out for the best regardless of what happens.

Scott the Ghost
11-09-2007, 10:25 AM
I keep wanting to say mean things in this thread so I will just put this here.

adrena_line
11-09-2007, 10:44 AM
I think you should delete both of your posts as they have nothing supportive to say. :thumbs: This is NOT the time or the place.

Pink
11-09-2007, 10:46 AM
ohh oh come out and party with us this weekend!!

i got about 3,000,000 hugs saved up just for you!

SuMMeR
11-09-2007, 10:47 AM
I keep wanting to say mean things in this thread so I will just put this here.

Why don't you gtfo of this thread? Talk about immature..

Pink
11-09-2007, 10:48 AM
no need to quote him summer.. just say it with the red dots.. spread the hate.

- ; )

*It's*me*
11-09-2007, 11:07 AM
lol...

Steev_oh
11-09-2007, 11:37 AM
not that i matter. But i can come kick it if you want. :confused:

*It's*me*
11-09-2007, 11:46 AM
ohh oh come out and party with us this weekend!!

i got about 3,000,000 hugs saved up just for you!



ya for pinky hugs!! i am kidna tempted to get out and about...but i would have to get a sitter, so i will let u know!

KC Meat
11-09-2007, 11:52 AM
:p

Meh I'm only crazy if you do something to irritate me.Yea, and it's really hard to irritate a pregnant woman...


Aww Boo if you ever need smoker buddies..... :weed: Unfortunately I am not very good at offering emotional support, damn being a virgo.Yea, your sign is TOTALLY the reason why...Nici's a virgo and she's excellent at it...people need to quit attributing their personalities to what time of the year they were born...have some personal accountability ;) haha


I keep wanting to say mean things in this thread so I will just put this here.Really? You're actually tempted to say mean things to somebody who is having marital problems and looking for friendship/support from people who don't have a problem with her? I don't care what issues you have with somebody, that's just immature and cold...you were doing well with not saying anything, but you just HAD to let her know that you WANTED to say mean things...STFU...

SuMMeR
11-09-2007, 12:20 PM
Yea, and it's really hard to irritate a pregnant woman...

..

Shut up KC... you're irritating me.





;)

Scott the Ghost
11-09-2007, 12:27 PM
Really? You're actually tempted to say mean things to somebody who is having marital problems and looking for friendship/support from people who don't have a problem with her? I don't care what issues you have with somebody, that's just immature and cold...you were doing well with not saying anything, but you just HAD to let her know that you WANTED to say mean things...STFU...

I agree it was cold and if it was anyone else I would not have said anything but she said some fucked up out of line shit to me after the car accident. I was returning the favor.

edit: I don't want to switch the topic of this thread so no one reply in reference to this. I just wanted to make sure people understand the reasoning behind my comment. Best of luck to you and Mikey, Laura.

*Bunny*
11-09-2007, 12:33 PM
Yea, your sign is TOTALLY the reason why...Nici's a virgo and she's excellent at it...people need to quit attributing their personalities to what time of the year they were born...have some personal accountability ;) haha

Well then what is my excuse? I really am not very good at being emotionally supportive. :( Maybe her parents are better than mine? Or maybe you and most people you hang with are less needy?

aLeX
11-09-2007, 12:38 PM
So, long story short, my life is changing pretty dramaticaly this weekend. Mikey and i decided to seperate from each other for a 3 month trial period and then re-evaluate where we are at once that is done. I am going thru a whole rollercoaster of emotions atm, mostly good but there is a lot of sadness right now. I could really use some companionship to help me get over this, someone to laugh with and have some fun.....:D

well i don't know you and you don't know me...but i know what it's like to go through hard times, and if you need someone to talk to i'll listen...

just putting it out there. hope things get better.

KC Meat
11-09-2007, 01:33 PM
Shut up KC... you're irritating me.

;)Uh oh :eek: *runs*


Well then what is my excuse? I really am not very good at being emotionally supportive. :( Maybe her parents are better than mine? Or maybe you and most people you hang with are less needy?Uh, how about you simply aren't that kind of person?...I'm HORRIBLE at emotional support, just ask my wife...hahaha...everybody who needs emotional support I point toward Nici, cuz I simply don't know how...I'm far too apathetic to care enough to provide support...nothing my parents did, it's just the way I am...I espeically have no idea how to deal with somebody who is crying...except to call my wife over...haha


I agree it was cold and if it was anyone else I would not have said anything but she said some fucked up out of line shit to me after the car accident. I was returning the favor.Well, I hope your ego feels better now that you've "returned the favor" :rolleyes:...so when's your nap time, cuz you seem to be getting a little cranky??

Scott the Ghost
11-09-2007, 01:42 PM
Well, I hope your ego feels better now that you've "returned the favor" :rolleyes:...so when's your nap time, cuz you seem to be getting a little cranky??

It was totally a childish thing to do, I wont lie. In my opinion it was deserved. I don't feel bad about it at all.. I should have made the comment I was going to say. In my opinion it would have served her right. The things she said about me and to me were fucked up plain and simple. She would have got what was coming.

I don't want to derail this thread so don't reference that post anymore..

KC Meat
11-09-2007, 01:54 PM
It was totally a childish thing to do, I wont lie. In my opinion it was deserved. I don't feel bad about it at all.. I should have made the comment I was going to say. In my opinion it would have served her right. The things she said about me and to me were fucked up plain and simple. She would have got what was coming.

I don't want to derail this thread so don't reference that post anymore..Oh, how nice of you to want to keep her thread on topic :rolleyes:...

Lara, hit us up some time :D

*It's*me*
11-09-2007, 02:06 PM
ok with those fun and games over with...


i would defiantly like to go out more often and chill with you all....might be able to make something work on this saturday, but more than likely next weekend will work.



I want u all to know that there is no hard feelings atm between mikey and myself, just need a little breather i guess.

KC Meat
11-09-2007, 02:11 PM
Does this mean we'll get to see Mikey too, or just you?...not that it's "just you," but we haven't seen both of you in forever :( ...I'm doubting this will make him come out...haha

Pink
11-09-2007, 02:13 PM
you know you and mikey both are welcome over to my house anytime if one of you just needs a place to breath.. - ; )

SuMMeR
11-09-2007, 02:21 PM
ok with those fun and games over with...


i would defiantly like to go out more often and chill with you all....might be able to make something work on this saturday, but more than likely next weekend will work.



I want u all to know that there is no hard feelings atm between mikey and myself, just need a little breather i guess.

I also want to come stop by sometime and gather baby stuff you mentioned :) I could keep ya company for a bit too.

wi$edirect
11-09-2007, 02:46 PM
aw :( love you guys! I hope everything works out. Laura you are more than welcome to call/email me anytime if you would like to chat. (This also goes for mikey as well). I miss you guys!


GO BRONCOS!!


p.s. merf! :)

NasteeN8
11-11-2007, 01:45 PM
I don't really know you but I definitely feel for you. I'm in that same situation (kinda). My gf and I just broke up for a hiatus, til last night at least....

Go drink beers with good friends and get your mind off of it.

ps, I've got a question: What the hell should I do? I came home from the party last night and my ex came to my house with some guy and had sex there while I was passed out. I'm freekin furious. Who the fuck does that?

adrena_line
11-11-2007, 02:06 PM
what...the hell ?!?!

you know some WEIRD people!

NasteeN8
11-11-2007, 02:10 PM
what...the hell ?!?!

you know some WEIRD people!
I've never had a girl do shit like that before. She was hanging out at my friends house flaunting this guy off, then comes to my house with him. I really need some info on what I should do? I'm considering moving out of my house cuz I can't handle disrespect like that. I've been quite considerate up until this point, I think consideration has been thrown out the window now and I want to be a total dick.

WTF did I do to deserve some shit like that?

Fox
11-11-2007, 02:43 PM
I've never had a girl do shit like that before. She was hanging out at my friends house flaunting this guy off, then comes to my house with him. I really need some info on what I should do? I'm considering moving out of my house cuz I can't handle disrespect like that. I've been quite considerate up until this point, I think consideration has been thrown out the window now and I want to be a total dick.

WTF did I do to deserve some shit like that?

does she live with u?

Mizz Nici
11-11-2007, 03:16 PM
I don't really know you but I definitely feel for you. I'm in that same situation (kinda). My gf and I just broke up for a hiatus, til last night at least....

Go drink beers with good friends and get your mind off of it.

ps, I've got a question: What the hell should I do? I came home from the party last night and my ex came to my house with some guy and had sex there while I was passed out. I'm freekin furious. Who the fuck does that?


Random place to put a question like that. This thread is for Laura.


Boo I miss you. I wanna hang out with you! :( Lets go get pedicures or something. Take the little ones to the aquariam or go play in the snow in the mountains. Please :o

Nick Bliss
11-11-2007, 04:15 PM
Love is tough, I hope you guys can work it out.

The person I love is soon moving to WA. Been apart for about 4-5 months, but we both still love each other, and talk about it to this day. We've chosen different paths due to some circumstances earlier on, and it's painful as fuck. I hope our paths cross again and things change. /shrugs.

If you feel it's true, don't let it go too far, but certainly do your thing and keep your friends close. Keep talking to him, and always be honest with how you feel.

Good luck to you guys!

*Bunny*
11-12-2007, 10:07 AM
Uh, how about you simply aren't that kind of person?...I'm HORRIBLE at emotional support, just ask my wife...hahaha...everybody who needs emotional support I point toward Nici, cuz I simply don't know how...I'm far too apathetic to care enough to provide support...nothing my parents did, it's just the way I am...I espeically have no idea how to deal with somebody who is crying...except to call my wife over...haha
I guess that could be true? The way I deal with crying, here.... smoke this.... Not good apathy skills right there. I make them shutup while they are around me, but I don't fix or help them figure anything out.


I don't really know you but I definitely feel for you. I'm in that same situation (kinda). My gf and I just broke up for a hiatus, til last night at least....

Go drink beers with good friends and get your mind off of it.

ps, I've got a question: What the hell should I do? I came home from the party last night and my ex came to my house with some guy and had sex there while I was passed out. I'm freekin furious. Who the fuck does that?
Yeah at least she hopefully isn't dealing with that, I am sure if she were it would be a completely different way that this thread is going. Obviously you were not supposed to now or at any time be with her. Now you know, good thing you know right?

If you need a friend you have my # sucka, twas nice hangin out a lil bit at Fresh Start.

Much love and support to Laura, and the Kids, and Mikey. <3 I am sure it will work out for the best, and the way stuff is supposed to be, it always does. Damn life and it's lessons. :thumbs:

Scurv
11-13-2007, 10:29 AM
BOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#!@!@!!

I <3 YOU!!! Hit me up anytime you need me~!!@@!

*It's*me*
11-13-2007, 10:40 AM
you guys, thank you so much for the support...i wanna get out this weekend, so let me know whats going on!!!

Pink
11-13-2007, 12:03 PM
pornstar ball..

but i'm still trying to figure out if i'll be in town or out of town.

- ; )

Punkie
11-13-2007, 12:42 PM
I <3 you Laura!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!